Expert Talk: HOW TO BE GREAT AT SALES WITHOUT SEEMING SALESY

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Written by Nat Schooler

May 15, 2025

In today’s business world, selling is an essential skill that extends far beyond traditional sales roles. Everyone is a salesperson, whether you’re pitching a business idea, asking for a raise, or convincing your family about a decision.

Take the time to listen or watch this insightfil interview with Steven J Manning, he has sold over 47 Billion USD of goods and services. We are all in sales!

Key Insights on Effective Selling

1. Selling is Universal

  • We’re all selling something to someone all the time
  • Selling starts from childhood (convincing parents)
  • It’s about provoking a desired outcome in others

2. The Core of Successful Selling

The most critical aspect of selling is understanding your audience:

  • Know their needs, wants, and desires
  • Research their business and competitors
  • Focus 98% of your pitch on the client, not yourself

Preparation is Key

Homework makes the difference:

  • Do extensive research on your prospect
  • Understand their industry and challenges
  • Prepare questions that demonstrate your knowledge

Value-Added Approach

Selling isn’t about being pushy, it’s about:

  • Providing genuine insights
  • Solving the client’s problems
  • Creating a connection based on understanding

Practical Selling Strategies

The One-to-One Selling Technique

  • Treat each sale as a personal, unique interaction
  • Customize your approach for each client
  • Make the client feel understood and valued

Overcoming Sales Resistance

  • Be transparent about your goals
  • Show empathy
  • Demonstrate how you can solve their specific problems

The Non-Salesy Sales Approach

What Not to Do

  • Avoid generic, impersonal pitches
  • Don’t talk down competitors
  • Never assume the sale

What to Do

  • Be genuine
  • Provide real value
  • Listen more than you speak
  • Show how your solution specifically helps them

Final Thoughts

Successful selling is about:

  • Understanding the client
  • Providing genuine value
  • Building trust
  • Solving real problems

Remember, the best salespeople don’t feel like they’re selling – they’re helping clients find solutions.

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Nathaniel Schooler is a Podcast Host, Amazon Best Selling Author, and Entrepreneur. He is Co-Founder International Imposter Syndrome Awareness Day, Co-Founder of MONDAY INFLUENCER®.